Wednesday, February 1, 2012

Notes From The Journey: February


Notes from the journey


 This last month, our children and youth spent some time talking about community and what it means to be together. What does it mean to you to be a part of this Unitarian Universalist community?

I imagine that if I were to take an official poll asking adult members why they come to church, your answers might be very similar to that of our kids: my friends are here, to learn, to share, to share about God, to have fun, to meet new people, and possibly even because someone else made you come.

What is interesting about most of the answers shared by our children is that they understand that there is some give and take involved. They understand that to be a part of a community is, at its core, about “sharing.” This means that while we may expect to be filled in some way by coming to church, that we also understand that something is expected of us in return. This may mean that be bring our enthusiasm, a new idea, an ability to listen, or even that we walk through the doors with an open heart, ready to find wisdom in whatever the day holds for us. Our children also know that everyone, and I mean everyone, has something to share.

While this seems like a simple lesson, it is not always easy to remember. For many of us, by the time Sunday morning rolls around, we are exhausted. The week has been long and stressful, and perhaps we need a reason, any reason, to just stay home. So as we hit the snooze button for the fifth time, we ask ourselves, “why church?”

The answer is, in short, because you bring something. When your batteries are completely drained and you feel like you have nothing else to give, you bring something. When you have volunteered on 5 committees and helped organize what seems like a million events and you are pretty sure you are “churched” out; you bring something. When you are having a crisis or faith, you bring something. When your luck has been down and you are at a complete loss, you bring something.

It is so easy to forget that each and every one of us is valued, loved, and needed. This community is not the same without you.


 Together In Faith,
Amy Peterson Derrick
Director of Lifespan Learning

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