Thinking About Child Dedication?
Unitarian Universalists joyfully welcome children into our community with ceremonies of Child Dedication. We will be offering opportunities this year for participation in a group dedication during our worship on Christmas Eve and at the Wheel of Life Celebration in May. You may be wondering what Child Dedication involves, so here are some answers to common questions about this rite of passage.
What is Child Dedication?
The Unitarian Universalist tradition celebrates the birth of children as well as the entry of older children into our community when their parent(s) become members. This tradition echoes the longstanding rituals of many faiths that welcome new life into the community and the world.
What is the ritual?
We affirm the beauty of each child, bless them, officially present their names and pledge the support of the entire congregation in nurturing our children. Special music, readings and affirmations create a memorable occasion for all. A special certificate and a rose without thorns is given to each child.
Can my child have godparents?
Sometimes parents choose to select godparents to serve a special role as spiritual guardians of their children. The ceremony can include godparents if the parents desire it.
Can we have a private ceremony with family and friends?
Yes, private child dedications are available to all members if that style of dedication is more suited to your family tradition. Sometimes a more intimate ceremony can be tailored to include elements of other faith traditions, which can be helpful and sensitive for families of mixed faith backgrounds. Otherwise, we offer the opportunity for group dedications at Christmas Eve and at the Wheel of Life Celebration in May.
My child is older and was never dedicated as an infant. Can s/he be dedicated now?
Child are precious to us at all ages. Older children are very welcome to participate in a child dedication and often appreciate the opportunity when they see little ones dedicated. It is meant to be a meaningful and important moment in their young lives.
Why do it on Christmas Eve?
Unitarian Universalists believe that every night a child is born is a holy night. The time when the birth of Jesus is honored brings to mind the sacred gift of each child and lifts up their potential to live a blessed fulfilled life.
What should my child wear?
Just like on Sunday morning, we come to this church as we are, so no special clothing is needed. However, if you have christening gowns or other special clothing for dedicating infants, you are most welcome to dress your child in these traditional clothes.
How can we participate this year?
Talk with Rev. Shelley Page about your interest in one of the group dedications. Call her office at 810-877-6732 or email minister@uuflint.org You can also talk with her about scheduling a private ceremony. If you want to have your child dedicated on Christmas Eve, please let her know by December 21.
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